This is for all the people who are irritated by the cliches that people in relationships think are advice. All the: "you'll find them when you least expect it", "work on yourself", "put yourself out there". I am here to explain the "bad" advice that everyone gives before I get in a relationship. Yes, you… Continue reading Hidden and Protected: Something Feels Different
Tag: Dating apps
A Crush by Any Other Name
When my alarm went off this morning, I lay there for a snooze and wondered if you'd be at work today. If you weren't going to be, I could snooze once more then throw on my uniform and grab coffee before running out. If you were, I would need to get up... I would need… Continue reading A Crush by Any Other Name
Breaking a Toxic Cycle
One of the best things about being a girl has to be the way we share about the guys we like. I always love telling and hearing about the cute moments. I told my friends I was talking to this guy, he was picking on me about the way I say "taco" and I would… Continue reading Breaking a Toxic Cycle
im-Patiently Waiting
I am a month away from being 25 and I have never been in a real relationship. Sure, I've flirted and been on a few dates here and there. I've gotten close to guys, seen their vulnerabilities and shared my own. I have showed my big personality and waited for the initial novelty to wear… Continue reading im-Patiently Waiting
What’s your favorite movie?
I once dated a guy that the only thing we had in common to talk about was Game of Thrones.  We met on Tinder during the last season of the show and somehow we actually went on several dates. Somehow I met his friends. Somehow it was still nice to be around him but man we… Continue reading What’s your favorite movie?
Tinder Detox
So, as you may or may not have read (and if you haven't you can read it here) I deleted tinder about a week ago. And really, I don't miss it. For the most part... What I didn't really expect was the feeling of needing to detox from it. I guess I could have weened… Continue reading Tinder Detox
Deleting Tinder
In the near 1 year that I had Tinder I matched with 374 guys, messaged about 50, gave my snapchat to 4, my phone number to 2, and met 1. I downloaded the app last August on a whim and deleted it the same way. And if you're like tinder, you want to know why.… Continue reading Deleting Tinder
Girls Aren’t the Confusing Ones
I've grown up with a lot of guys. My brother and his friends, my best friends, they've always been people I relate to. All through my teen years I listened to my guy friends complain about their "crazy girlfriends" or how the girls they liked were so confusing and they couldn't figure out what they… Continue reading Girls Aren’t the Confusing Ones
I Tindered…
I consider myself somewhat old fashion. I have hopeless romantic ideals, but as a rom com and country music fan I really didn’t stand a chance. My favorite movie is Deadpool after all. All that said, I recently downloaded tinder... yeah my eyes rolled at myself too so don’t feel too bad. At first I… Continue reading I Tindered…